Jan 20, 2016

James 3 ~ Taming the Tongue





James  
... studying practical FAITH

James 3   ~ Guard your tongue!
                    ~ Ask God for Wisdom!





James Chapter 3 ~NIV Version
1Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly. 2We all stumble in many ways. Anyone who is never at fault in what they say is perfect, able to keep their whole body in check.
3When we put bits into the mouths of horses to make them obey us, we can turn the whole animal. 4Or take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. 5Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.
7All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind, 8but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
9With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be. 11Can both fresh water and salt water flow from the same spring? 12My brothers and sisters, can a fig tree bear olives, or a grapevine bear figs? Neither can a salt spring produce fresh water.
Two Kinds of Wisdom
13Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom. 14But if you harbor bitter envy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast about it or deny the truth. 15Such “wisdom” does not come down from heaven but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. 16For where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice.
17But the wisdom that comes from heaven is first of all pure; then peace-loving, considerate, submissive, full of mercy and good fruit, impartial and sincere. 18Peacemakers who sow in peace reap a harvest of righteousness.



































































































·         Background:  Interestingly, different languages each name “James” differently;  Book of Jacov, (Hebrew); Jacovus (Greek); Jacques (French); Diaga (Italian); Diego (Spanish); James (English).
·         Book is attributed to the half-brother of Christ by most scholars.
·         Emphasis: Written apx 62AD. At the time of writing this book, James’s contemporary was Paul; Paul was doing a lot of writing. However, Paul writings emphasize “faith”.
·         James understand faith, but emphasises “deeds” that should come from our faith; Faith is our confidence in God.   Our evangelical denominational emphasis puts its emphasis on Salvation; James put his emphasis on “Deeds” as in  “…what have you done with your faith?”
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Chapter 3:
A). Taming the Tongue

(AKA How to Win Friends and Influence People OR Preventing Forest Fires)

Ø  (v.1) Not all should become teachers.  There is a lot of responsibility that you take on when you are a teacher.
Ø  One of the most distressing crises is a fire out of control. The pain of seeing the destruction can be almost unbearable. Personal belongings going up in smoke. The beauty of nature destroyed. Even loss of life itself.


Ø  (v.5) In this passage James compares the destructive power of the tongue to that of a forest fire.
Ø  We can use our tongues to build people up to encourage them…or we can destroy people with our tongue.
Ø  Our tongues can control our whole lives
Ø  Jesus said:  “…What goes into someone's mouth does not defile them, but what comes out of their mouth, that is what defiles them." ~ Matthew 15:11
Ø  A man reveals what is in his heart through his tongue
Ø  (v.10) Out of the same mouth comes praise and cursing.
Ø  Guard your tongue!


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Important!
  • So we've started the ENGINE; now let's get this car in gear and get CRUISING!


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Question:  ... BUT!  Let's say you've blown it with your tongue (as we often do,) what do we do then?

Answer:  

  • I believe the answer to making things right lies in Matthew 5 
  • (These are Jesus words in the Sermon On the Mount Teaching).  
  • Here Jesus tells us what to do FIRST  (Remember, nothing comes before FIRST!).


 22But I tell you that anyone who is angry with a brother or sisterb c will be subject to judgment. Again, anyone who says to a brother or sister, ‘Raca,’d is answerable to the court. And anyone who says, ‘You fool!’ will be in danger of the fire of hell.
23“Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and there remember that your brother or sister has something against you, 24leave your gift there in front of the altar. FIRST go and be reconciled to them; then come and offer your gift. ~ Matthew 5

Raca: vain, empty, worthless, only found in Matt. 5:22. The Jews used it as a word of contempt. It is derived from a root meaning "to spit."

Before you put money in the offering, before you have your devotions, before you do anything,

  • ...FIRST go and be reconciled to them;
  • Ask forgiveness to the one you offended by your tongue (or any other way for that matter).


  • Sample: “God has convicted me of how wrong I have been in ___________________(state my attitude and actions).  I know I have wronged you in this, and I’ve come to ask, will you forgive me?”




B). Wisdom:

·     We need to ask God for Wisdom!
·     The fear of the Lord (reverence) is the beginning of Wisdom ~ Proverbs 9:10
·     Your commands (God's Word) are always with me and make me wiser than my enemies ~ Ps. 119:98

Solomon:
·         Biblically, we learn that the great men of the bible  have always asked God for wisdom.   While there are many examples, the Old Testament introduces us to Solomon, who although famously wise enough already, is recorded asking God for wisdom.  Amazingly, we actually get to listen in on this intimate conversation in 1 Kings 3. 



4-5 The king (Solomon) went to Gibeon, the most prestigious of the local shrines, to worship. He sacrificed a thousand Whole-Burnt-Offerings on that altar. That night, there in Gibeon, God appeared to Solomon in a dream: God said, “What can I give you? Ask.”
Solomon said, “You were extravagantly generous in love with David my father, and he lived faithfully in your presence, his relationships were just and his heart right. And you have persisted in this great and generous love by giving him—and this very day!—a son to sit on his throne.
7-8 “And now here I am: God, my God, you have made me, your servant, ruler of the kingdom in place of David my father. I’m too young for this, a mere child! I don’t know the ropes, hardly know the ‘ins’ and ‘outs’ of this job. And here I am, set down in the middle of the people you’ve chosen, a great people—far too many to ever count.
“Here’s what I want: Give me a God-listening heart so I can lead your people well, discerning the difference between good and evil. For who on their own is capable of leading your glorious people?”
10-14 
God, the Master, was delighted with Solomon’s response. And God said to him, “Because you have asked for this and haven’t grasped after a long life, or riches, or the doom of your enemies, but you have asked for the ability to lead and govern well, I’ll give you what you’ve asked for—
I’m giving you a wise and mature heart. There’s never been one like you before; and there’ll be no one after. As a bonus, I’m giving you both the wealth and glory you didn’t ask for—there’s not a king anywhere who will come up to your mark. And if you stay on course, keeping your eye on the life-map and the God-signs as your father David did, I’ll also give you a long life.” 

~ The Message (MSG) version of 1 Kings 3

James:
 This perceptive man immediately in his writing begins to teach us of God's ability to impart wisdom by asking Him in prayer.  God stands by, only too happy to oblige our wisdom requests.  I find that I remember back to my youthful days seeking God for my life's work and  subsequently encourage my children to seek God for direction and 'generous amounts' of wisdom that is their's; ....just for the asking.

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you ~ James 1:5


Ø  It has been said that there are two significant times in a person's life; the day you were born, and the day you discover WHY you were born.  Perhaps then we should spend our time as wisely as we can in the ways God has gifted us;
·      doing the things that we discover God has created us for; 
·      doing the things that are building God's kingdom; including our Character, and being a Godly and positive influence in the lives of people around us.
·                     I know I can be more like that this year than I was last year.  What about you?


What Will Matter?
Ready or not, someday, it will all come to an end.
All the things you collected whether treasure or tinsel will pass to someone else.
There will be no more surprises, no minutes, no hours or days.
Your wealth, fame, and temporal power will shrivel to irrelevance.
It will not matter what you owned or what you were owed.
Your grudges, resentments, frustrations, and jealousies will finally disappear.
So too, your hopes, ambitions, plans and to-do lists will expire.
The wins and losses that once seemed so important will fade away.
It won’t matter where you came from or what side of the tracks you lived on, at the end.
I won’t matter whether you were beautiful or brilliant.
Even your gender and skin color will be irrelevant.

So what will matter?
How will the value of your days be measured?

What will matter is not what you bought, but what you BUILT;
…not what you got, but what you GAVE.
What will matter is not your success, but your SIGNIFICANCE.
What will matter is not what you learned, but what you TAUGHT.
What will matter is every act of INTEGRITY, COMPASSION, or SACRIFICE that enriched,
Empowered or encouraged others to emulate your EXAMPLE.
What will matter is not your competence, but your CHARACTER!
What will matter is not how many people you knew,
…but how may people will feel a lasting loss, because you made a DIFFERENCE!
When you’re gone, What will matter is the CLARITY and CARE at which you have loved others, …and have been a POSITIVE INFLUENCE in their lives.
What will matter is not your memories, but the memories that live in those who loved you.
What will matter is how LONG you will be remembered by WHOM and for WHAT.
Living a life that matters, doesn’t happen by accident.  
It’s not a matter of circumstances but of CHOICE.
~Michael Josephson



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