Apr 25, 2016

Fence vs Guardrail


The Disease of the Lukewarm Christian ~ Darren Wilson

 Verses like this in the Bible played a large part in my struggle with God, because it always made Him seem so unbending and demanding.  I mean, if I'm sort of following you, you're seriously going to vomit me out of your mouth?

Verses like this in the Bible played a large part in my struggle with God, because it always made Him seem so unbending and demanding.  I mean, if I'm sort of following You God, You're seriously going to vomit me out of Your mouth?
"I know your works, that you are neither cold nor hot. I wish you were cold or hot. So then, because you are lukewarm, and neither cold nor hot, I will spit you out of My mouth" (Rev. 3:15-16).
Growing up as an evangelical Christian, we didn't spend a whole lot of time hanging out in the book of Revelation. There was a lot of weird stuff in there that seemed next to impossible to figure out, but on the occasion that we were told to turn in our Bibles to Revelation, you could be fairly certain on where you were heading. Chapters 2 and 3 in Revelations deal with God's messages to the early churches, and while there's a lot of good stuff there, whenever someone wanted to drop the hammer of conviction on the crowd, they'd usually turn to the message for the church in Laodicea. The lynchpin was always the verse quoted above, and the meaning was heavily implied—if you're not all in with God, then He's got a problem with you.
As I've grown in friendship with God, I've realized a lot of areas where I got both His point and His character all wrong. Verses like this in the Bible played a large part in my struggle with God, because it always made Him seem so unbending and demanding. I mean, if I'm sort of following You, You're seriously going to vomit me out of Your mouth? That's pretty strong language. So I would try to move closer to Him by doing more stuff, but inevitably I'd wind up back in the same place of loving and serving a God I didn't trust all that much. Faith in that headspace is highly unsatisfying, to say the least.
But as I explored the idea that friendship with God should be our ultimate goal in life, I began to look at these troublesome verses through the lens of friendship, and suddenly they didn't seem so troublesome anymore. In fact, they revealed a God with real feelings and a real personality. In a sense, it gave substance to the idea that God IS love.
Most Christians look at this admonition to Laodicea and only see one outcome that will please God. Either get hot with Him or He's upset. But we miss the other alternative that God throws into the mix, because it seems so counterproductive for God to actually want such a thing from us. But there it is, plain as day. "I'd rather you be hot OR cold, just don't be lukewarm." Why would God say such a thing? In my rational mind, if I were to choose a pecking order for people's hearts towards serving God, it would be hot is best, lukewarm is OK (because at least you're doing something), and cold is the very worst. But in God's kingdom, hot is best, cold is OK and lukewarm is repugnant. What gives? How do we make sense of this?
To me, it all boils down to friendship. When Jesus tells us in John 15:15 that He no longer calls us slaves, but friends, He's talking about actual, real friendship. And the cornerstone for the best friendships is not love, but honesty. After all, we all know people we love very much but don't trust at all. But the people you trust the most, and the people you can be honest with the most, are typically your best friends in the world.
Obviously, God wants us to trust Him and go after Him with everything we have—to be "hot." But I think the reason He tells us He's also OK with us being "cold" is because at least then we're being honest with Him. He can work with honesty. Some of my best times with God have come when I've simply been brutally honest and told Him how disappointed I am in Him, how much I'm struggling with the idea that He is always good, and how I just don't have the spiritual energy or desire to be "hot." He would then take those moments of raw honesty and get to work wooing me back to Him.  
When you read the Psalms, written by a man "after God's own heart," you see a picture of a man who is hot and cold, trusting and terrified, worshipful and on the brink of giving up. "Where are you? What's taking you so long? Do you want me to die?" This is the heart of David splayed open for his God to see, and it was through this hot and cold man that God established His kingdom forever.  
So what is it about the lukewarm Christian that bothers God so much? Why does neither hot nor cold literally make Him wretch? I think it's pretty simple. When we're lukewarm, we don't think there's anything wrong, and we're quite content with where we are at, thank you very much. God is a God of the harvest, but He can only harvest where there is growth. When you are lukewarm, growth is nonexistent because you think you are fully grown. You're a double-minded person, with one foot turned toward God and the other turned toward yourself. But more than anything, you're simply not being honest about your current condition. And the one thing God cannot abide is a lack of honesty, because dishonesty drives a wedge between friendships.  
God uses strong language because He's talking about the thing that means the most to Him—you. He loves your passion, and He can work with your pain, but your lukewarm heart makes you an acquaintance and not a friend. It has always been fashionable to label the church of Laodicea as the one most closely associated with the American church. But the secret in overcoming isn't going to be found in buckling down and trying harder. The only thing that can cure the disease of lukewarm Christianity is honesty with God. You're either hot or your cold. If you don't identify with one or the other, then maybe the disease has taken hold of you. Luckily, there is an antidote that can work miracles. And that antidote begins with a simple, honest prayer.  
"Dear God, help me."
Darren Wilson is the founder of WP Films and the creator of various films, including Finger of God, Father of Lights, and Holy Ghost. Darren's new film, Holy Ghost Reborn, is now available, as is his newest book, Finding God in the Bible, at his website at wpfilm.com.

He Is Able ~ G. Ferguson

He IS Able!

He is able more than able
To accomplish what concerns me today
He is able more than able
To handle anything that comes my way
He is able more than able
To do much more than I could ever dream
He is able more than able
To make me what He wants me to be

He is able more than able
To accomplish what concerns me today
He is able more than able
To handle anything that comes my way
He is able more than able
To do much more than I could ever dream
He is able more than able
To make me what He wants me to be

To do much more than I could ever dream
He is able more than able
To make me what He wants me to be
~ by Greg Ferguson

No Goggles!


Lessons on Leadership: Moses, Passover and the Call of God. ~ Joel Rosenburg

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In late March, as readers of this blog know, Lynn and I had the joy of visiting the Hashemite Kingdom of Jordan at theinvitation of King Abdullah II. On our second day, we went up to Mount Nebo. This was Lynn's first trip to Jordan, so what a special thing to do. But this was my seventh, and yet I had never gone up to the mountain where the Lord took Moses to show him the Promised Land.
Wow! What a view. It was a beautiful, clear, crisp Spring day. Lynn and I could see the entire range of the Jordan River Valley. We could see Jericho, and Bethlehem, and -- in the distance -- the Judean Hills, the eastern sides of the Mount of Olives and Mount Scopus, and the lights of the holy city of Jerusalem.
In the weeks that followed, I found myself thinking a great deal about Moses -- about the tremendous miracles the Lord accomplished through him, to be sure; about his great courage before Pharoah, the evil tyrant of the Middle East at that time; and about the powerful prophecies that Moses both proclaimed as God directed him, and those that he fulfilled, as well. At the same time, I also found myself reflecting on the sadness Moses must have felt at not being allowed by God to enter the Promised Land with his people, the nation of Israel. This was Moses' own fault. He had been unable to control his anger, and there were consequences, even for such a great Biblical leader.
Fortunately, of course, Moses eventually made it to Israel. In Matthew 17, we read the remarkable account of Moses standing on the Mount of Transfiguration, talking with the Lord Jesus Christ and the prophet Elijah. Amazing. Talk about an exciting first visit to the Holy Land!
That said, I also found myself meditating a great deal on the man Moses was when the Lord first called him to this important mission to set His people free. I began studying Exodus chapters three and four day after day, trying to understand God's call on Moses' life, and why Moses resisted it so intensely.
Last Friday night, Lynn and the boys and I gathered with dear Israeli friends and celebrated our second Passover here in the Land of Israel since moving to the Land in August 2014. Yet again, like every year, we spent an evening thinking about what God did to rescue and save His people. The following morning, I preached at a congregation not far from Tel Aviv. The message the Lord put on my heart came from Exodus three and four. Here are my sermon notes. Hope you find them helpful and take some time to answer the questions below. God bless you, and Happy Passover from Israel!
WHEN GOD CALLED MOSES: Lessons on Leadership from Exodus 3:1-22 and 4:1-17
Today, we think of Moses as a great hero of the faith, and the Passover story as his most dramatic accomplishment. That’s true. But let’s step back and see the man God called into His service.
To begin, please read Exodus 3:1-22 and 4:1-17 in full.
Then, let's look at a series of excuses Moses made, telling the Lord why he couldn't possibly respond to God's divine call.
1.) Moses asked God, “Who Am I?”
Exodus 3:11 – “Who am I, that I should go to Pharaoh, and that I should bring the sons of Israel out of Egypt?”
Translation:
  • I am nothing.
  • I am no one special.
  • I have failed many times.
  • I’m not the right one to do this.
So, how did God answer Moses? Read here.
2.) Then Moses asked God, “What Shall I Say?”
Exodus 3:13 – “Behold, I am going to the sons of Israel, and I will say to them, ‘The God of your fathers has sent me to you.’ Now they may say to me, ‘What is His name?’ What shall I say to them?”
Translation:
  • I don’t know what to say.
  • I don’t know God well enough to speak for Him.
  • I’m not the right one to do this.
So, how did God answer Moses? Read here.
3.) Then Moses asked God, “What if they won’t believe me?”
Exodus 4:1 – “What if they will not believe me or listen to what I say?”
Translation:
  • No one is going to listen to me.
  • No one is going to believe me.
  • I’m not the right one to do this.
So, how did God answer Moses? Read here.
4.) Then Moses told God, “I’m not eloquent.”
Exodus 4:10 – “Please, Lord, I have never been eloquent, neither recently nor in time past, nor since You have spoken to Your servant; for I am slow of speech and slow of tongue.”
Translation:
  • I’m not a good public speaker.
  • I’m slow to form my words. (Note: it is widely believed that Moses stuttered.)
  • I get “tongue-tied.”
  • I’m not the right one to do this.
So, how did God answer Moses?  Read here ...
5.) Finally, Moses essentially told God, “No.”
Exodus 4:13 – “Please, Lord, now send the message by whomever You will.”
Translation:
  • I’ve heard everything you’ve told me, but it doesn’t persuade me.
  • I don’t know what to say.
  • I don’t know how to say it.
  • I can’t do this,
  • I won’t do this.
  • I’m not the right person.
  • Find someone else.
How did God respond? Read here.
In Exodus 4:14, we read: "Then the anger of the Lord burned against Moses..."
Still, the Lord showed tremendous grace and mercy to Moses. He provided Aaron, the older brother of Moses (by three years), to assist Moses in this vital mission. And despite Moses' lack of faith -- his sinful obsession with his own flaws and faults rather than trusting in the Lord's love and power and greatness -- the Lord redeemed him and used him in spite of himself to save the nation of Israel and bring them out of terror and tyranny and into freedom.
God’s Grace
Have you ever stopped to consider that all of Moses' excuses were essentially true? He didn't really know the Lord well. He didn't know what to say? Pharoah didn't listen to him or believe him. And after forty years on the backside of the desert, tending sheep, thinking about his worst failure -- murdering an Egyptian and having to flee for his life -- perhaps it's no wonder Moses was not eloquent, and perhaps even someone who stuttered.
But have you also ever stopped to consider that maybe all of Moses' weaknesses and failures were precisely why the Lord chose him to be His servant and His spokesman? By choosing a weak and sinful and desperately self-conscious person, the Lord showed Himself great and powerful, loving and wise. This way the Lord -- not Moses -- could receive all the praise and glory and honor, because it wasn't possible for Moses to lead the nation of Israel out of Egypt on his own. He wasn't capable. And he knew it.
What does the Bible say about the man that Moses eventually became?
  1. “Now the man Moses was very humble, more than any man who was on the face of the earth.” (Numbers 12:3)
  2. “Since that time no prophet has risen in Israel like Moses, whom the Lord knew face to face, for all the signs and wonders which the Lord sent him to perform in the land of Egypt against Pharaoh, all his servants, and all his land, and for all the mighty power and for all the great terror which Moses performed in the sight of all Israel.” (Deuteronomy 34:10-12)
  3. Moses was included in the “Faith Hall of Fame” in Hebrews chapter 11.
Questions For Us Today
I was deeply moved by these passages. They contain some tremendous lessons on leadership for all of us.
  1. What is God calling you to say?
  2. Where is God calling you to go?
  3. What excuses are you giving to the Lord?
  4. What promises has the Lord made in His Word to those who love Him and want to obey Him?
The Bible is clear: the Lord is calling you to serve Him and take His Word -- the special message of the Scriptures -- to people who need rescue and salvation, freedom and redemption. He is calling you and I to "go and make disciples of all nations" and to be His "witnesses in Jerusalem, Judea, and Samaria and even to the ends of the earth." Will we be faithful to this high calling? Or will we give God a list of excuses why we're the wrong people for the job?
May you study Moses carefully, and learn from the lessons he learned the hard way.
~ Joel Rosenburg
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What are the 14 Signs We Are Near The End ~ Don Stewart


Question: What Are The 14 Signs We Are Near The End?
Answer:
1. The Jews Have Returned To Their Ancient Homeland (Israel Will Be The World’s Spotlight)
2. The Temple Mount Will Be In The Headlines (The Continual Preparations To Build A Third Temple)
3. The Nations Mentioned In Ezekiel 38,39 Will Start To Lineup
4. The Other Nations In Ezekiel 38,39 That Are Conspicuous By Their Absence
5. No Superpower In The World: The Continual Decline Of America
6. The Desperate Desire For A World Leader Which Will Be Fulfilled By The Coming Antichrist
7. The Exponential Increase Of Technology That Will Lead To The Eventual Fulfillment Of Revelation 13 (The Mark Of The Beast)
8. The World Economic Crisis Which Will Lead To A One-World Currency
9. The Continuing Problems Of Plagues And Pestilence
10. The Increase Of Lawlessness As It Was In The Days Of Noah
11. Violence Increases As It Was In The Days Of Noah
12. Apostasy In The Church: The Organized Church Rejects The Historic Christian Faith
13. The Move Toward A One World Religion
14. Israel Is Abandoned By The World (Anti-Semitism Increases)

The Good Fight! ~ Matt Tapley


"...Fight the Good Fight of Faith"

Apr 18, 2016

Passover: Worthy Is the Lamb Who Was Slain ~ Susan Michael



Lamb
Jesus was the perfect sacrificial lamb. 
Passover is known as the Festival of Redemption, because it commemorates the children of Israel's freedom from slavery in Egypt some 3,500 years ago. It takes place this year between the evening of April 22-30.
We know the story in Exodus well: God chooses Moses and sends him to tell Pharaoh to "let My people go." Pharaoh refuses and Egypt is visited with ten different plagues that practically destroy the nation. The last plague is the death of the firstborn male of every family.
The Lord uses this plague to teach the children of Israel the principal of redemption through a substitute. He instructs them to choose a young male lamb or goat on the tenth day of the month of Nisan and observe their lambs for three days to ensure they are without blemish. Then, on the fourteenth day of the month they were to slay the lamb and place the blood on the doorposts and lintels of their houses. That evening, when God saw the blood, the plague would pass over those dwellings and would not strike that home.
On the night of that first Passover, all the firstborn in Egypt were under the sentence of death. However, if the Israelites followed God's instructions, the lambs became their substitutes. God said, "When I see the blood, I will pass over you" (Exod. 12:13).
He also instructed them to roast the meat of the lamb in fire and to eat it along with unleavened bread and bitter herbs. The Passover Seder meal enjoyed by Jews today takes those original elements, and a number of others, transforming the meal from a somber time of dread into a joyous celebration of that great deliverance.
A Lamb Without Blemish
Passover became one of three major feasts when the men of Israel were to make pilgrimage to Jerusalem for its celebration. There they would present their lamb to the priests in the temple on the 10th of Nisan for inspection and approval. The lamb was then taken home and observed for the next three days to be sure it was perfect, without defect.
Jesus went to Jerusalem for Passover, as did thousands of others, even though He knew what awaited Him there. His Palm Sunday triumphal entry to Jerusalem, followed by His appearance in the temple, may have, quite prophetically, been on that day of the inspection of the Passover lambs.
John the Baptist, a Levite, had already declared Jesus to be the Lamb of God at His baptism when he said, "Behold! The Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world!" (John 1:29). The apostle Paul later wrote that we are redeemed by "the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot" (1 Peter 1:19), and in 1 Corinthians he said "Christ, our Passover, was sacrificed for us" (1 Cor. 5:7-8).
A Sacrificial Lamb
When the 14th day of Nisan arrived, it was time to observe Passover, so Jesus instructed the disciples how to find the place where they would eat the Passover meal together. They were told to go into the city and find a man carrying a pitcher of water and follow him to his master's house where there would be a large upper room for them to use. They were to prepare the Passover meal there.
Scripture does not tell us what was involved in the preparation of the Passover meal and assumes we know that, in addition to preparing the unleavened bread, wine, and bitter herbs, there was the task of killing a sacrificial lamb at the temple (Mark 14:12).
On that day, the temple was filled with worshippers, each bringing their family's lamb. At the threefold blast of the priests' trumpets, the lambs were slain and their blood was spilled into a golden bowl and passed up to the Great Altar. While this was being carried out, the Levites chanted the "Hallel" which is Psalm 113-118. The Hallel ended with the crowd of worshippers proclaiming the last two verses aloud, Psalm 118:25-26.
"Hosanna," or "Save now," was what the throngs had also cried out earlier when the Lamb of God, who would be slain for the sins of the world, had passed by them on His way to the Temple.
["Hosanna"] "Save now, I pray, O Lord; O Lord, I pray, send now prosperity, Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!" (Psalm 118:25-26).
A Submissive Lamb
The prophet Isaiah had prophesied that the Messiah would be like a lamb: submissive even while being led to the slaughter (Isaiah 53:7). Jesus did suffer silently before the religious and civil authorities and gave no defense for Himself as they interrogated Him (Matt. 27:12-14).
Jesus fulfilled all of the requirements of the perfect Passover Lamb of God. No wonder the apostle John saw in his vision of heaven the angels crying out: "Worthy is the Lamb who was slain, To receive power and riches and wisdom, And strength and honor and glory and blessing!" (Rev. 5:12).
Susan Michael is the U.S. director of the International Christian Embassy Jerusalem.

THE COLOUR OF A WOMAN'S LIBIDO ~ Sheila Wray Gregorie


by Sheila Wray Gregoire
Your beloved is at the sink, arms elbow-deep in suds, scrubbing a pot. Her body is shaking in all the right places. She looks luscious. As you walk by you grab a bit, just to let her know how sexy she is.
If you’re lucky, all that gets bitten off is your head. Why can’t she just appreciate a compliment?

When it comes to sex, your wife may have the same reaction to arousal as a colour blind guy does to the colour green. The vast majority of time, it makes no sense to her. With sex, many women are often incapable of feeling, or even wanting to feel, aroused. It’s a foreign concept.

Most women have two distinct states: “Sex? What’s that? Leave me alone,” and “Come and get me, baby.” In about 30 per cent of marriages the wife actually has the higher sex drive, but in most marriages the big tension is that he wants to make love more frequently than she does. And he can’t figure out why she isn’t more interested, especially if she has a good time when she does surrender. Can’t she hold on to that?

Nope. When women are in the “no” state, we can’t imagine what it feels like to be in the “yes” state. It doesn’t compute. It’s like we know intellectually that at one point we were in raptures, but our bodies forget. Our bodies are colour blind—or at least sex blind.

Often, everything a woman loves when she’s in the “yes” state are total turn-offs if she’s in the “no” state. When we’re doing dishes, and you walk by and grab a bit of flesh south of the neckline, that’s not sexy. That’s annoying. Telling her she’s hot? Demeaning. Whispering “I know what I’d love to do to you”? Pesky. “Let’s get it on!” Presumptuous.

While you may enjoy certain parts of your body being touched whenever we get the itch, we don’t return the sentiment. The parts of our bodies that we enjoy being touched when we say “yes” are the very parts that, should you reach out to them when we’re in  the “no” state, will rebel and erect a chain link fence, with barbed wire to boot.

Yet isn’t touching exactly what is supposed to get us aroused? Actually, no. A man’s body parts may be hardwired into his arousal process, but a woman’s aren’t. Her arousal process has a gatekeeper, and she’s more vicious than a secretary trying to protect her doctor employer from new patients. She doesn’t want to let anything through. And that gatekeeper is her brain.

A woman’s sex drive is ruled by her brain; a man’s is ruled by something a little farther south. If the brain is not engaged, her body won’t follow. Touch the body before the brain says yes, and everything snaps, like a giant mousetrap.

But it’s not that we never like these things. On the contrary, they work wonderfully well—if we’re already in the “yes” state. But don’t treat her like all engines are revved when they’re not.

That leaves guys with a bit of a dilemma. You want to move her from “no” to “yes”, but you’re not allowed to touch anything or say anything that screams of sex. What do you do?

Remember the key to passion isn’t a body part; it’s intimacy. Don’t grab her body; touch her heart. There’s a reason make-up sex is often so passionate; you’ve had a fight, and you’ve made up, and so you’ve both shared very emotional things. You feel heard. You feel validated. You’ve been intimate, even if it’s been through a difficult experience. And it’s that intimacy, even more than the reconciliation, that she’s reacting to.

God designed sex to be a man’s doorway to intimacy, but He designed intimacy to be woman’s doorway into sex. Marriage unites two people with very different drives, and in order to create real harmony, we have to become unselfish and reach out to meet each other’s needs. She’s not weird or strange or frigid. She just needs to feel like she’s one with you before she physically becomes one with you.

What do you do if you turn to mush and she’s still a “no”? Talk to her about it. Ask her what would help her to feel more intimate. Certainly explain your frustration. But also spend more time with her away from a screen just having fun. Nurture your relationship. Love the whole person. And whatever you do, keep your hands to yourself.

How Christian Parents Produce Backslidden Children: Part 2 ~ Joseph Mattera

This is part 2 in a two-part series. You can read Part 1 here. 
As a pastor for over 30 years, I am amazed that such a small percentage of the children of Christian parents actually serve the Lord when they reach their teenage years and beyond, including the children of Christian leaders. Since nurturing covenantal children is the primary method God uses to establish His dominion on the earth as it is in heaven, there aren't many subjects more important than the one I am addressing in this article.
In this article, I correlate Christian parental behavior with likely outcomes related to the faith of their children. That is to say, each of us could read this article and most likely tell if our children will serve the Lord with all their hearts in the future, or be lukewarm or unbelieving when they get older. The following are my observations on why many children of Christian parents do not serve the Lord when they are older.
Many Christian parents have a superficial understanding of God and their faith 
Many parents only have a very superficial belief system; some don't even know the very basics of the faith! Because of this, they cannot possibly pass down the faith to their children with any substance. Thus, their children will also have a very superficial faith at best. Most likely they will have a trajectory of having no faith and not attending church when they are older.
Every parent doesn't have to be a theologian, but every parent should be grounded in the first principles of the faith and pass them on to their children.
Many children rarely see their parents seeking God earnestly and consistently 
Our faith is more caught than taught. Thus, children learn much by observing their parents diligently seeking God in their private lives. This shows children that their parents have a substantive relationship with God, even when other people are not looking at them. Children who do not see their parents consistently and earnestly seeking God are on a trajectory of having a casual acquaintance relationship with God, instead of a friendship.
Many parents depend too much on their church's Sunday school or youth group to mature their children in the faith
I have had to correct many parents who think it is the job of the local church to disciple and train their children in the Lord. The truth is, the church only has their children for several hours per week at best. Parents have their children for at least 50 hours per week. Truly, the primary responsibility of training children in the way of the Lord rests with parents, not the church (Proverbs 22:6; Deuteronomy 6:6-9). Children not trained at home by their parents will possibly find themselves on a trajectory toward nominal Christianity without any personal spiritual discipline to seek God.
Many Christian parents consistently miss church for any and all reasons 
As a pastor, I marvel that so many parents regularly miss church services because of family events, sporting events, because they are tired or a little sick, or because they want to stay home to relax or shop. Truly, when parents live like this, they shouldn't be shocked when their children grow up to be lukewarm Christians who don't take the things of God seriously! If these same parents treated their business or place of employment the same way they treat church, they would have gone bankrupt or gotten fired years ago! These children are on a trajectory of making God only a part of their lives instead of Jesus being their lives!
Many Christian parents don't spend quality time with their children
Many leaders are guilty of sacrificing their children on the altar of ministry or work-related ambition. What does it profit us if we gain the whole world and lose our children? Children of these parents are on a trajectory of having low self-esteem and insecurities because they feel they are not important enough for their parents to take time out for them.
Many Christian parents jump from church to church 
I am not saying that you can't ever feel led to leave a local church, but some people I know are hopping from one church to another every year or two. Children of these parents are on a trajectory of not being personally stable in their faith, being individualistic in relating to God, not being able to commit to any community of faith, nor trusting spiritual authority in their lives.
Many Christian parents constantly nag their children  
I have learned that it is not wise to preach at your children. As they get older it is also important that we do not nag them constantly about doing what is right. At a certain point we need to believe God that He will get a hold of their hearts and convert them.
Instead of nagging our children we need to spend that same amount of time or more in prayer and fasting in faith for their souls. Children of nagging parents are on a trajectory of tuning out their parents and all adults when they get to be teenagers, which will result in rebellion against authority and foolish behavior.
Many Christian parents are too legalistic or religious with their children 
A parental approach that is very strict, religious and legalistic may be just as harmful as parental lukewarmness in the home towards Christ. When parents try to force their children to believe in Christ by making them live by strict, oppressive rules without any emotional connection, spiritual connection or fun, they will nurture resentful children who will run from God as soon as they are old enough.
Children of legalistic religious parents are on a trajectory of falling into gross excess in regards to sinful pleasure as a reaction against the oppressiveness of rigid legalistic religion. Children of legalistic Pentecostal homes rarely serve God when they get older and often stop going to church in their older teenage years.
In summary, these are just some of my observations which seem to ensure the backslidden or lukewarm condition of a child raised in a Christian home. However, there are always exceptions to these observations. Some children can go on to fulfill their purpose in Christ with passion in spite of the hindrances of their parents.
Also, as parents we can do everything correctly and not violate any of the above points, and yet still find our children struggling in their faith. This article is not meant to bring condemnation to parents, but to awaken us to our responsibilities as we cooperate with the Holy Spirit in the nurturing of our children. Ultimately, if our children don't meet God for themselves they will not seek Him, even if we follow the best practices as parents.
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7 Steps for Studying the Bible ~ J Vernon McGee

Ed's Note:   How's the bible reading going ....remember the zest you had at the beginning of the new year when you made those plans to read through the bible this year?   ....I want to encourage you to keep going!   There is a blessing for those who perservere....not much in this life gets accomplished except through persevering!  Keep at it everyday and the Lord will bless you for it.  Study it with purpose and zeal as if your life depends on it!  Here is some thoughts on bible study from Vernon McGee, a noted southern bible teacher of years gone by.


by J. Vernon McGee



There are certain guidelines that each of us should follow relative to the Word of God. I guarantee that if you will follow these guidelines, blessing will come to your heart and life. There are seven very simple, yet basic, preliminary steps that will be an effective guide for the study of the Word of God.

Someone has put it in a very brief, cogent manner: “The Bible—know it in your head; stow it in your heart; show it in your life; sow it in the world!” 

1. Begin with Prayer
The Bible differs from other books in that the Holy Spirit alone can open our minds to understand it. You can take up a book on philosophy, and if a man wrote it (and he did), then a man can understand it. The same is true of higher mathematics or any other subject. There is not a book that ever has been written by any man that another man cannot understand. But the Bible is different. The Bible cannot be understood unless the Holy Spirit is the Instructor. And He wants to teach us. The fact of the matter is, our Lord told us, "He will guide you into all truth." (John 16:13) When we open the Word of God we need to begin with the psalmist’s prayer:
"Open thou mine eyes, that I may behold wondrous things out of thy law." (Psalm 119:18)
The Holy Spirit is the Teacher, and He must be the One to lead us and guide us into all truth. 
This, then, is the first guideline: Begin with prayer and ask the Spirit of God to be your teacher.


The second guideline may seem oversimplified.
Someone asked a great Shakespearean scholar years ago, “How do you study Shakespeare?” 
His answer was very terse, “Read Shakespeare.” 
And I would say to you: "Read the Word of God."
Do you want to know what the Bible has to say? Read the Bible. Over and above what any teacher may give you, it is all-important to read for yourself what the Bible has to say.
Dr. G. Campbell Morgan has written some very wonderful and helpful commentaries on the Bible. In fact, he has a series of books that I recommend on all sixty-six books of the Bible. I know of nothing that is any better than them, and when I started out as a student, they had a great influence on my study of the Word. It is said of him that he would not put pen to paper until he had read a particular book of the Bible through fifty times. So don’t be weary in well doing, friend; just read the Word of God. If you don’t get it the first time, read it the second time. If you don’t get it the second time, read it the third time. Keep on reading it. We are to get the facts of the Word of God.
Then the third guideline is . . .

3. Study the Bible.
Someone came to Dr. Morgan, years ago, and said, “You speak as though you are inspired!” 
Dr. Morgan replied, “Inspiration is 95 percent perspiration.” 
The Bible needs to be studied. We need to realize that the Spirit of God will not teach us something that we could get ourselves by study. 
We have to knuckle down and study the Word of God. A fellow student in a Bible class when I was in college said, “Doctor, you have assigned us a section that is very dry.” 
The professor, without even missing a step, said to him, “Then dampen it a little with sweat from your brow.” 
The Bible should be studied, and it is very important to see that. There is a certain knowledge that the Spirit of God is not going to give you. I do not think He is revealing truth to lazy people. After all, you never learn logarithms or geometry or Greek by just reading a chapter of it just before you go to sleep at night!
Now you may be shocked when I say that I do not encourage devotional reading of the Bible. Over a period of years I have learned that a great many people who are very faithful in what they call devotional reading are very ignorant of the Bible. I stayed with a family for over a week when I was holding meetings in a place in middle Tennessee. Every morning at the breakfast table we had devotions. Unfortunately, breakfast was always a little late, and Susie and Willie were rushing to get away to school. I am confident that they didn’t even know what was read. Dad was wanting to get away to work, and he generally made the Bible reading very brief. 
Always he’d say, “Well, I’ll read this familiar passage this morning because we don’t have much time.” 
And, believe me, we didn’t. By the time the reading was over, Susie and Willie left the table like they were shot out of a gun, and Dad got out of there almost as quickly as they did, and Mother was left with the dishes—and I wondered if she had really heard what had been read. I determined right there and then that in my home we wouldn’t have devotional reading. I have always encouraged members of my family to read the Bible on their own. That is the reading that is profitable.
Someone is going to say, “But I have my devotions at night after the day is over.” Now really, don’t you have them right before you go to bed? You’ve got one foot in bed already, one eye is already closed, and you turn to a passage of Scripture to read. 
It was said of John Wesley that he was a man of one Book. What made him a man of one Book? Well, he got up and read the Bible at four and five o’clock every morning—read it in five different languages. Believe me, he studied the Word of God. And you and I need to study the Word; we need to get the meaning of the Bible.
This leads to the fourth guideline:

Meditation is something that God taught His people. The Word of God was to be before the children of Israel all the time—so that they could meditate on it.
"And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: and thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up. And thou shalt bind them for a sign upon thine hand, and they shall be as frontlets between thine eyes. And thou shalt write them upon the posts of thy house, and on thy gates." (Deuteronomy 6:6-9)
Now that is an amazing statement coming from the Lord. He told them to write the Word of God upon the doorposts. In other words, wherever they turned, it was just like looking at billboards. 
Now what does it really mean to meditate on the Word of God? There is a very interesting statement in the first Psalm:
"Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the LORD; and in his law doth he meditate day and night." (Psalm 1:1, 2)
To meditate is to ruminate, to bring to mind and consider over and over. We are to get the Word of God, read it, have it out where we can look at it, then think about it, meditate on it.

5. Read what others have written on the Scriptures.
I know that this is a dangerous rule, because many people depend on what someone else says about it. Also there are many books on the market today that give wrong teaching concerning the Word of God. We need to test everything that is written by the Bible itself.
However, you and I should consult a good commentary. With each outline of the books of the Bible I list recommended books, commentaries that I have read and have found helpful. You will find it very profitable to read what others have said. Actually you are getting all the distilled sweetness and study of the centuries when you read books written by men who have been guided in their study by the Spirit of God. You and I should profit by this. There have been some wonderful, profound works on the books of the Bible.
In addition to commentaries, a concordance is invaluable. I can recommend three: Young's concordance,  and Cruden's concordance—take your pick. Also you will need a good Bible dictionary. This is very helpful. 

6. Obey the Bible.
For the understanding and the study of the Scriptures, obedience is essential. Abraham is an example of this. God appeared to him when He called him out of Ur of the Chaldees and again when he was in the Promised Land. But Abraham ran off to Egypt when famine came, and during this time God had no word for him. Not until Abraham was back in the land did God appear to him again. Why? Because of lack of obedience. Until Abraham obeyed what God had already revealed to him, God was not prepared to give to him any new truth. So it is with us. When we obey, God opens up new truth for us.

7. Pass it on to others.

Not only read the Bible, not only study the Bible, not only meditate on the Bible, and not only read what others have written about it, but pass it on to others. That is what we all should do. You will reach a saturation point in the study of the Word unless you do share it with others. God for some reason won’t let you withdraw yourself from mankind and become some sort of walking Bible encyclopedia, knowing everything, while the rest of us remain ignorant. I think that is the reason He said:

"Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together, as the manner of some is; but exhorting one another: and so much the more, as ye see the day approaching." (Hebrews 10:25)
God has told us to be witnesses. He said, “Ye shall be witnesses.” He did not say that we should be scholars, walking encyclopedias, or memory books. Do not bury God’s truth in a notebook. We are called to be witnesses today, therefore we ought to pass it on to others.
Pass it on!
These, then, are the seven basic guidelines to follow to study the Word of God:

1. Begin with prayer
2. Read the Bible
3. Study the Bible
4. Meditate upon the Bible
5. Read what others have written on the Bible
6. Obey the Bible
7. Pass it on to others

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